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Note: These videos are not intended for younger viewers!
If you are under 14, please visit the Elementary or Middle School pages instead.

If you're still struggling to understand consent (or explain it to someone else), this classic video should be able to clear things up...

Note: contains explicit language.  View the clean version HERE.

"The only way to know if someone wants to have sex with you is to ask.  Consent is about asking & listening to the answer."

Click to watch the whole Planned Parenthood Consent Video series!

In her open & expressive style, Laci Green explains what sexual assault is, how asking for consent does and doesn't look, situations when consent can't be given, and why creating consent culture is such a powerful & sexy choice. 

NYU students & alumni "shared what consent means to them, and the importance of starting a brave conversation on campus."

Click to learn more about NYU's commitment to sexual respect.

Vassar College students answer the questions:
"How do I ask for consent?"
&
"How do I like to be
asked for consent?"
 
Note: contains explicit language.

Clear, compassionate, and supportive ways to respond when someone shares their experience of sexual assault with you.

Grumpy Princess's cathartic & scathing critique of attempts to defend rape culture. "There seems to be debate on which words a lady person needs to say to avoid being sexually assaulted.  So I wrote a helpful song!"

Note: contains explicit language.

Booty Kings (Chris Redd, Kenan Thompson), Uncle Butt (Pete Davidson),
Future & Lil Wayne rap about how much they love women and consent in this script-shifting SNL parody.

Note: contains explicit language.

Links for Further Learning
Campus Safety, Prevention, Activism & Survivor Resources
(Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network)
https://rainn.org/safety-students

Help for Sexual Assault Survivors, Families, and Friends
(National Sexual Violence Resource Center)
www.nsvrc.org/survivors

Affirmative Consent and Sexual Respect
www.affirmativeconsent.com

Consent and Sexual Assault
(Planned Parenthood)
www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/sexual-consent

Resources for Preventing Sexual Abuse & Assault
(National Sexual Violence Resource Center)
www.nsvrc.org/resource-topics

All About Sexting
(Planned Parenthood)
www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/bullying-safety-privacy/all-about-sexting

California Sexting Laws for Teens and Minors (Nolo)
www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/teen-sexting-california.htm

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